How To Get A Girlfriend


 

By Lucas Owen

 

Hit the pause button for a minute and think about this. You have been told that getting a girlfriend requires a certain level of coolness or a streak of the “bad boy” nature. Unfortunately, this is misinformation. Yes, women are not looking for men that they can use as a footstool, but they most certainly aren’t all looking for “bad boys.” You can get a girlfriend by applying and constantly developing a certain number of skills. Here we go.

Your Social Proof

Become indispensable within your circle of friends while continuing to expand it. Nothing is more attractive to women than noticing a man who has a large and supportive group of friends. She will want to know just why you are so special to all the people that are within your social circle. She may use her own circle of friends to break in to yours but in the end she is simply trying to get closer to you. Hence, go to parties, social events and functions. Become indispensable.

Talk To Strangers

Develop your social skills and build your confidence by making it a habit to talk to strangers. In doesn’t matter where you are or what gender they are. Simply develop the habit of beginning small talk with strangers whether you are on a bus or at the grocery store. The more you do this, the easier it will be to approach and talk to women. Women will also notice the most extroverted person in the room and will try in some fashion to grab your attention. They may even approach you directly. This will make the prospect of finding and getting a girlfriend a lot easier.

Have An Active Life

Don’t just sit at home and play video games or twiddle your thumbs. Fill your roster with exciting activities. Get out there and engage in activities that enrich your life. It doesn’t matter what it is. It could be a sport, a volunteer program, some kind of adult education function etc. Just get out there. The more active and exciting your life is, the higher the likelihood that you can meet a potential girlfriend at one of these venues. Do understand that women are also really attracted to men that seem like they have a lot of stuff going for them. It makes you appear more exciting and hence more of a person that they would like to get to know. Hence, if you are a couch potato and want to get a girlfriend, you are going to have to ditch the couch.

Personal Hygiene And Grooming

Sorry to let you in on this but if you want to get a girlfriend and you completely ignore how you dress as well as your personal hygiene, you will not succeed. You do not have to be as suave and debonair as James Bond, but you do have to look presentable. What does this all mean? Wear clean shoes, press your clothes, trim your beard, bathe regularly and use some cologne(in small doses) every now and then. Your potential girlfriend likes a man that looks like he put out a genuine effort to look good before he left the house. Don’t ignore your fingernails either. If they are the length of Count Dracula’s with a ton of dirt in between for good measure, she may be running away from you.

Make Female Friends

Forget about constantly frothing over the most attractive woman in the room. Irrespective of whether you are attracted to them or not, start talking to all kinds of women. If you can develop relationships with as many women as you can, then they will be more likely to introduce you to their friends. A potential girlfriend may be in the mix. Hence, expand your circle of female friends. If you don’t know how to do that, simply start with a female co-worker or colleague and work your way from there.

Dating Sites

If you have never tried dating sites, you are missing out on huge potential. Dating sites such as Adultfriendfinder.com have lots of women who have dating profiles. These are to your advantage because you will have access to her photos and her story. Dating sites are probably the easiest and quickest routes to getting a girlfriend. The women on them are already available and actively looking for a relationship.


Whatever you choose to do, remember that at the end of the day, you have to present an engaging and unique personality to her. However, do not fake it and present someone that isn’t truly who you are. You may be able to get away with it for a while but she will see through you eventually and girlfriend will go “bye bye.” Be unique and interesting, and you will get a girlfriend without a problem.

 

 

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