Online dating can seem like a bridge too far for some men. There are many who have tried it and given up because they simply couldn’t get any worthwhile messages or any messages at all for that matter. Others tried to force the issue and contact as many women as they could only again to face failure. Hence, in essence, they throw in the towel. They become furious and scream at the top of their lungs that online dating is a farce. Here are some online dating tips for men that will help you succeed.
Write Personalized Messages
In other words, do not cut and paste your messages to other female members. Many men decide to do this in order to make life easier. Indeed, it seems to make sense as online dating is a game of numbers. However, a lot of these women can tell that these messages are cut and pasted. Hence, they will instantly disregard your message. You should write personalized messages that are specific to that woman. Using her username in your message also helps to give her the sense of being singled out and special. This is a crucial online dating tip for men that can truly change your results.
Do Not Expect Her To Send You A Courtesy Message Of Thanks But No Thanks
So many men think that it is only fair that she sends them back a message thanking them for their initial interest but politely letting them know that she wasn’t interested. Here is a reality check. It is not her job nor duty to respond to your message with a courtesy message. She doesn’t owe you anything. If your ego is so fragile that you cannot handle her not responding to your message with at least a courtesy “No Thanks,” online dating may not be for you. If she doesn’t send you a response message simply take that as a clear indication that she is not interested and move on to someone else.
Ask For A Date
This may sound very elementary. After all, why else are you on the dating site but to find a date? But alas, it isn’t as elementary as you might think. Some guys fall victim to the perpetual conversation online. He grabs her interest and they begin to exchange messages but then he waits and waits until her interest wanes and she moves on to someone else. Then he wonders what the heck happened. Most women will only converse with you for so long before they begin to lose interest. They have a lot of other suitors vying for their attention. You must ask for a date soon. Don’t leave it to her. She is waiting on you. If you don’t do it while her interest is piqued, she is moving on to one of the 100 or so men who sent her a message that day.