It is not a good idea to meet him at his place for a first meeting.
If this is a guy that you met on an online dating site, you don’t really know for sure who you are dealing with.
It is always best to meet him at a public place for a first meeting, no matter how amazing your interaction has been with him online.
Sometimes, people can get really carried away with a particular interaction that they are having with someone that they met on an online dating site.
They may get so excited about the person that they forget that they actually don’t know this person quite yet.
They have gotten to know the person that has been presented to them on the online dating site.
However, until they actually get to meet this person in real life and interact with the person for a sustained amount of time, they can’t truly determine if the person has been honest in how they have been representing themselves on an online dating site.
This is why it is really important that you don’t allow yourself to get too caught up in how good this guy has made you feel in the conversations that you have had with him on the online dating site.
If he suggested that the both of you meet at his place for a first meeting, you should respectfully decline that offer and let him know that you would much rather meet him in a public place.
Try not to worry about how he will take this.
Remember that your safety comes first.
If he is truly a considerate person, he will understand this and he will respect your wishes.
Besides safety issues, another reason why it is not a good idea to meet a guy that you have been interacting with on an online dating site at his place for a first meeting is because you may make the mistake of setting the wrong tone very early.
If your very first meeting with this guy is at his place, he may get the impression that he doesn’t really have to make any real effort to woo you.
If you are looking for a serious relationship, this can be very detrimental to that cause.
He may get the impression that you are just fine with meeting him casually at his place.
In essence, you may make him feel as though he doesn’t really need to put in any work to get you to trust him and like him.
If you are so quick to meet him at his place for a first meeting, you haven’t allowed the process of wooing to occur.
You shouldn’t think that simply because the both of you got along really well on an online dating site, he has essentially done his job in wooing or courting you.
That really isn’t the case.
The wooing truly begins when the both of you meet in person.
If you are already meeting him at his place this early, he may not feel that he needs to put in any effort to woo you.
Again, this will be detrimental to your objective of finding a serious relationship with someone.