You may have reached a point where you want to end things with a guy that you met on an online dating site for whatever reason.
Perhaps you feel as though the connection that you once thought was there is now lacking.
Perhaps you feel as though this person has turned out to be somewhat different from the initial impression that you had of them upon meeting on an online dating site.
Perhaps you feel that your life has just become too complicated and you simply don’t have the time to dedicate to getting to know this guy.
Whatever your reason may be, it is important that you are really clear about it.
Oftentimes, a person may rush into ending things with someone else because of how they are feeling at the moment.
They get caught up in that emotion and act accordingly.
However, it is not uncommon for people to ultimately regret their decision to end things with the person.
Oftentimes, these people may try to get that person back into their lives after some time has passed, but unfortunately, the person may have moved on by that time.
This is why it is really important that you are absolutely clear about why you want to end things with a guy that you met on an online dating site.
Try not to make the mistake of thinking that there is someone out there for you who is the epitome of perfection.
This is often the mistake that people make when they are online dating.
They falsely believe that they will find the absolute perfect mate simply because they are on an online dating site where there is an unlimited number of suitors.
Unfortunately, they forget that, regardless of how many romantic prospects there are on an online dating site, these people are all still human and thereby flawed.
No one is perfect.
Oftentimes, people jeopardize a good relationship with someone that they have met on an online dating site in their quest for perfection.
They keep going out on date after date with other romantic prospects in search of that perfection.
However, they never find it.
They may have moments where they believe that they have found that perfection in someone.
However, as time goes on and they get to know the person even more, they realize that the person is actually not perfect.
As a result, they choose to leave the person in the hopes that the next person that they meet from the online dating site will be perfect.
They can continue in this mode for a while until they finally come to realize that perfection is simply unrealistic.
Again, people who come to this conclusion may try to return to those that they have ended things with in the past but it is often too late.
They have moved on.
If you want to end things with a guy that you met on an online dating site for the right reasons, you should simply be honest with him.
You don’t have to explain yourself.
Thank him for his time and his company.
Let him know that you are moving on and wish him the best.
Again, you don’t have to explain yourself.
In fact, try not to do so.
Doing so may get you tangled up in justifications that he may keep trying to refute.
No need for that.
Be simple and straightforward.
If he keeps trying to pry, politely let him know that you would rather not get into the details.
Wish him well and quickly end the conversation.