There are women who just want to chat on online dating sites and nothing else.
They may not have stated that on their online dating profiles.
Perhaps they stated that they are looking for a relationship or to date.
You may end up sending a message of interest to the woman, being that you are also looking for a relationship or to date.
You then proceed to chat with the woman for weeks on end and whenever you try to arrange a meeting, they either don’t make themselves available to you or they agree to the date only to ghost you soon after.
This does happen on online dating sites.
It isn’t unusual.
People aren’t always honest about what they really want when they join an online dating site.
This is why it is always important to learn some of the signs that indicate that you are dealing with a woman who has no interest in meeting.
You should always ask them about what they are looking for very early on in your interaction with them.
Never make the mistake of chatting with her for weeks before asking her.
If she isn’t clear about what she is looking for, you should take that as an indication of someone who may end up wasting your time if you were to allow yourself to continue chatting with her.
Oftentimes, guys make the mistake of continuing to chat with the woman because they are so attracted to her and they make themselves believe that as she gets to know them, she will like them and want to go out on a date with them.
This rarely turns out to be the case when you are dealing with a woman who is very vague about what she is looking for upon asking her.
Now, if you were to ask her about what she is looking for early on in the interaction and she were to tell you that she is looking for a relationship, you shouldn’t instantly take this as the truth.
If you are on the online dating site because you are looking for a relationship as well, there are a number of things that you will naturally do when you are interacting with someone who wants the same.
You are going to ask the person quite a few substantive questions about themselves in the hopes of learning more about who this person is and whether you can relate to them with your own life experiences.
You would also remember answers that the person gives you to these questions and will bring those answers up in future conversations.
You may do this because you want to follow up on a past answer with a related question.
Now, if you notice that you are the only one who is asking these substantive questions and doing follow ups, there is a good chance that the woman you are chatting with is actually not interested in finding someone for a relationship.
If all she does is answer questions and rarely asks you any.
If she tends to forget what was discussed in previous conversations.
If she never follows up with you on answers you gave her in a previous conversation.
These are all tell-tale signs that she is not all that interested in getting to know you as a person.
This is typically someone who may keep chatting with you but has no interest in meeting.
If you pick up on these signs early, you can save yourself a lot of time and energy.