You may be wondering whether going over to his house on a second date to cook and have dinner is a good idea.
It really depends on how comfortable you feel with this guy at this stage.
The fact that you are thinking about having a second date with him would indicate that the first date went well.
If this guy that you met through online dating has suggested cooking at his house on a second date, do understand that you don’t have to agree to that second date idea if you don’t feel comfortable doing so.
It is really up to you.
If he is a genuine guy and you were to turn down his second date idea because you are just not comfortable with going to his house on a second date, he will understand.
Hence, try not to force yourself to believe that going to his house on a second date is something that you must accept because he has asked you to and you had such a great first date.
Indeed, he may feel totally comfortable with having you come over to his house on a second date but that doesn’t mean that you are.
If you were to reluctantly agree to going to his house for dinner, you may end up feeling so uncomfortable at his home that whatever rapport the both of you have built up so far could be ruined.
If this guy that you met through online dating is the only one who is comfortable at the second date, this may end up being a failure of a second date.
So, think about this very carefully.
You shouldn’t be worried about turning down his offer to cook and have dinner at his house if you are truly not at that level of comfort in your mind quite yet.
Perhaps, you need a few more dates with him out in public before you come to the point where you feel that you can be comfortable enough to go to his house for a date.
Again, if this is truly a genuine guy, he will totally understand that you aren’t comfortable enough with him to want to go to his house at this stage.
He will be more than happy to meet you somewhere else in public on this second date.
There are a number of reasons why he suggested cooking at his house on a second date.
Again, he may already feel very comfortable enough with you.
He may also be trying to impress you by showing you his cooking skills. He may even be trying to impress you by showing you how well he lives.
There is also the possibility that he is hoping to sleep with you.
Yes, there are guys who will invite a girl to their house on a second date for this express purpose as well.
This is why you should feel really comfortable with going to his house.
If the thought of going to his house leaves you with a sustained feeling of trepidation, instead of excitement, it may be best to turn down his suggestion for now.
This doesn’t mean that you will never get to the point where you will feel comfortable enough to go to his house.
However, at this stage, it may be best to err on the side of caution.