It’s best to delete the dating app or stop talking to other people when the feeling is mutual.
Don’t make the mistake of deleting the dating app or cutting off other dating prospects by your own volition.
The other person that you have been going on dates with should also feel the need to date you exclusively for this to work.
If you have reached a point where you feel like focusing on this one person without the hassle of talking to other people or browsing the dating app, talk to the person that you are having all these great dates with about how they feel.
This isn’t about pressuring this person.
Never use this approach.
This is more of a conversation.
It’s where you are trying to gauge where this person is emotionally.
It’s actually a very important conversation to have irrespective of whether you are looking to delete the app or stop talking to other people or not.
Once you have been on several dates with someone, you should always have a point where you talk to them earnestly about how they feel about the both of you.
The last thing you should want is to continue going on dates with someone, thinking that you are both really connecting emotionally, only to find out many dates later that the person was only interested in going on dates and nothing more.
If you are looking for something serious, you shouldn’t just keep going on dates without determining where the person is at emotionally along the way.
If you are already a handful of dates in, this is most definitely the right time to have this conversation.
Again, it isn’t about pressuring the person.
You should never use this approach.
You should never have the attitude of, “This is what I want and you better feel the same way or else.” Instead, let them express themselves to you without you leading the conversation on in any which way.
Remember, the intent is to find out where this person is emotionally and the only way that you learn this sincerely is in allowing the person to express themselves freely, without any form of pressure.
Once you have gathered this information, you are in a much better position to figure out if the both of you are at the same place emotionally or similar.
Sometimes, one person is a little ahead of the other, but it doesn’t mean that the other won’t catch up.
This is the assessment that you are going to make.
If you feel that you are both at the same place emotionally, don’t be reluctant to ask them about their willingness to delete their account on the dating app and date exclusively to see where things lead.
If they truly care about you and believe that you have potential, they will agree with your suggestion.
On the other hand, if it feels like they are very far away from where you are at emotionally, you may be better off ending your time with them.
The last thing you want is to keep going out on dates with the person and continuously getting emotionally attached, only to have them never feel a true long-lasting connection with you in the end.