Online Dating: What Is It With Women’s Obsession With The Beach?

Online Dating: What Is It With Women's Obsession With The Beach?

Over and over you see dating profiles of women on the beach, declaring their love for it.

On a significant number of dating profiles, pictures of her on a beach constitute 90 percent of her whole photo gallery.

You don’t have anything against the beach but this is getting ridiculous.

It’s like there isn’t anything else to these women than their obsession with the beach.

What about information of deeper substance?

Why is that so absent on these dating profiles?

You believe that a dating profile should be constructed with the goal of giving potential partners a realistic and substantive look at who a person is.

When dating profiles are replete with pictures taken at the beach, it gives you the impression that the woman doesn’t care for substance.

It’s all fun and games.

That’s fine, if all she is looking for is fun and hooking up.

But, many of the women state that they are seeking a long-term relationship.

Why do they think that endless photos of themselves at the beach conveys the message that they are seeking anything other than fun?

I get it.

You are sick and tired of seeing dating profiles filled with these women relaxing or gallivanting on the beach.

It wreaks of frivolity and immaturity to you.

A dating profile that is filled with beach photos and barely anything else is certainly worrisome, especially when the woman behind it is stating that she is looking for a serious relationship.

That aside, many of the women who post pictures of themselves on the beach are hoping to send the message that they are an outdoorsy person.

Yes, that means that they love to get outside and do stuff, including in nature.

It’s their way of sending the message that any guy who messages them must have an appreciation for getting outside and enjoying what the world has to offer.

Are you outdoorsy?

You might not be.

You don’t remember when last you were on a beach.

That’s okay.

You don’t have to transform into a beach bum in the hopes of attracting women on a dating app. In fact, you shouldn’t transform into anything you aren’t for the sake of attracting someone else.

Doing this puts you at a grave disadvantage, as you are destined to be found out sooner or later and that would be the end of that relationship.

Besides, your goal on a dating app should be to meet someone you feel a good connection with, and oftentimes, that connection is derived from having common interests.

If you are more of an indoor person, there are certainly women on dating apps who have the same interests.

Why not direct your energy to those women?

Sure, it’s difficult not to be drawn to the dating profiles with beach pictures.

A half-naked woman lying on the beach is hard to ignore.

But, that is on you.

You are choosing to linger on these dating profiles, scrolling through her myriad of beach photos, permitting the disdain to build up within you as you do.

You are your own worst enemy when you do this.

You risk building up apprehension within you, which leads to a poor attitude.

A poor attitude in online dating decreases the prospects of connecting with a woman who has more in common with you.

No woman wants to talk to a man aggrieved.

It makes you come off as though you are unhappy with your life.

So as not to jeopardize your plight for love on dating apps, henceforth, whenever you see dating profiles with women on the beach, don’t linger on them.

Speedily swipe left and move on.