Conversations With My Matches Fizzle Out Once We Move Off A Dating App?

Conversations With My Matches Fizzle Out Once We Move Off A Dating App?

Whenever you match with someone on a dating app and hit if off, you suggest moving the conversation off the dating app to a different platform, such as social media or a messaging app.

She agrees, and almost immediately, the conversation fizzles out, even though you were maintaining the same energy that you had with her on a dating app.

Regardless of how good the conversation was going on a dating app, once it is moved to a different platform on social media or a messaging app, it almost immediately fizzles out.

Why do conversations with your matches fizzle out once you move off a dating app?

When you move off a dating app to a social media or messaging app, a match gets to see a side of you that you didn’t show in your dating profile.

Remember that the only reason why you matched with her was due to what she saw on your dating profile and how much she liked it.

This gave her an initial impression on you.

An initial impression that motivated her to match with you.

It is in this vain she engages in conversations with you, enthused and excited.

In moving conversation off a dating app, you are putting her in a totally different environment.

An environment that likely contradicts what she saw in your dating profile.

This effect is triggered from a number of factors.

The photos on the social media or messaging app you are now chatting with each other on, are significantly different from what you have posted on your dating profile.

The words in your posts on said platform gives her a different impression of you.

An impression that contradicts what she saw in the words you used in your bio on your dating profile.

All of this leads to a loss of interest, which consequently ends up in the conversation almost immediately fizzling out soon after moving to a different platform.

Some women aren’t ready to move conversation off a dating app when you suggest it.

She agreed to do it when you suggested it, to be polite, but she wasn’t ready.

She makes herself believe that she is okay with it.

After all, a good camaraderie has already been established, thanks to your prior conversations with her.

Unfortunately, it doesn’t take long for her to realize that she isn’t comfortable chatting with you on a different platform.

This is when the conversation fizzles out.

A social media or messaging app isn’t necessarily the most ideal place for her when it comes to chatting with someone that she is romantically interested in.

She prefers using these platforms for other purposes such as keeping in touch with family and friends, or expressing herself in some fashion.

Historically, she rarely or never uses these platforms to chat with someone she is romantically interested in.

Preferably, she uses dating apps to chat with men she is romantically interested in.

This is how she separates the functions of a dating app from that of a social media or messaging app.

In getting her to move a conversation from a dating app to a different platform, she is uneasy about using said platform to conduct conversations with someone she is romantically interested in, when she rarely or never uses it for that purpose.

This portends the fizzling out of your conversations with her.