Hi Luke, thanks a lot for your reply. I really appreciate it, also your videos on YouTube, taking your time to answer all our questions.
Indeed, he is very laidback, quite lazy I would dare to say, and it’s quite a struggle to take someone out of the comfort zone if the stake is not worth it.
For me it’s the same: I never turn a desire into an ambition if it’s not worth the effort.
He reacts with jealousy if I tell him I would go out with “a friend”, heats up for a few days, but then cools off. And at 30s and over adults are tired of playing this kind of games.
I am still thorn between letting him go and move on with my life or keeping going to see how things will play out.
Sending all my good thoughts to you!