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She’s kind of a nerdy girl. I never saw her with anybody just like she doesn’t have a friend. We first noticed each other in the library and we were in the same lecture. At first, she stared at me several times in the lecture hall. I even noticed that when I asked questions to the professor during the break time she still stared at me. During that time, she would always stare at me for a long time. Before the midterm, we saw each other every day in the library. I noticed that she’s like looking at what I’m doing almost every time she passed by my seat.
Sometime later, maybe she found that I noticed her, whenever we caught each other’s eyes when she passed by me, she walked away quickly. Sometimes it’s like she walks really quiet and kind of slow and when I try to look at her she will suddenly speed up. Also, whenever we bump into each other she acts like I do not exist or super strange although I’m sure we exactly know each other. Recently, no matter where I sit, I always feel that she will pass through that place more often than usual, maybe it is just coincidence or just my feeling or whatever? Also, she is almost completely ignoring me when she passes through me. However, I think I caught up each other’s eyes for more than four times from a long distance but I’m not sure whether she’s really looking at me.
We bump up again in the last week of this term and at that time she smiled very secretly and immediately look away （I‘m pretty sure this time). So I finally go and introduce myself to her two days later and this is the first and only conversation we have but after that I still feel she is avoiding me but not like truly avoiding me. At the last day in the library I was looking for some books on the bookshelf. (P.S. Bookshelves are arranged in rows) She just passed by the bookshelf I was in at first and we saw each other, After a while, she slowly walked towards me from another bookshelf in the same row as me, and then left the aisle. I’m too shy at that time and I didn’t even look at her when she came over.
I’m sorry the question seems too long. I really like this girl and I do not want to lose the chance. This question has struggled me for a long time. I just wanna find out she likes me or even hate me or just nothing happens.