Hi Eleanor,
People are always going to be shallow when scrolling through dating profiles. It’s human nature. However, you are being too hard on yourself.
Though you feel like you aren’t the “ideal standard of beauty”, you still get tons of likes on Bumble. Clearly, you do appeal to some people.
What works on one dating app, isn’t necessarily going to work on another. You get tons of likes on Bumble, but not on Facebook dating or Hinge. Try doing something different on these two other platforms.
Use different photos and write a different type of bio on them. The Facebook dating and Hinge crowd are not exactly the same as the Bumble crowd.
Take a closer look at what other girls are doing with their dating profiles on Facebook dating and Hinge. You will notice a difference in how their dating profiles are constructed. Mimic what they are doing but make it unique to who you are. This will get you better results on those two platforms.