So many videos on YouTube tell you not to date a single mom because they believe that you would be inheriting her relationship baggage and would have to take financial and personal responsibility for another man’s offspring.
In their minds, she is used up.
It is really up to you as far as what works best for you. It isn’t up to people on the internet to tell you that. They aren’t in your head or living your day to day life. They have no idea what type of person would work best for you.