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Kayleigh AustinMy boyfriend is mad at me. He is living abroad for work right now and was practically begging for me to visit him when I agreed everything was fine. I mentioned it to my parents and they were pissed, they cursed me out and all kinds of stupid drama.i made the mistake of telling my boyfriend about the argument between me and my parents. He got upset and assumed I wasn’t coming anymore , which isn’t true, he got upset about the argument with my parents and called our relationship ” worthless” if my parents aren’t on board with me visiting him. I was upset that he called our relationship “worthless” and then we argued about that. He was being very pessimistic about the whole thing and ended the argument by saying ” I’m just gonna shut my mouth now”. This was 3 days ago and I haven’t heard much from him since. He texted me yesterday morning asking what I was doing when I replied I told him I had just woke up and he never responded to it. I know he’s been online and I know for a fact he got my message. It’s bothering me because he is all the way in Europe and I’m here in the US. He was so excited but now he’s ignoring me and called our relationship worthless. I haven’t heard from him since. I dont know what to do/say or how to play it at this point. Really confused.
Hi Kayleigh,
First and foremost, your boyfriend is mad at you because he misses you and is now worried that the argument that you had with your parents is going to lead to you choosing not to visit him in Europe.
He is also mad that your parents don’t seem to respect nor value his relationship with you.
This is why he called his relationship with you worthless.
He is simply frustrated at this point.
He doesn’t have access to you as easily as he used to and that isn’t helping him mentally.
He ignored your response to his text message because he is still trying to show you that he is upset.
He will get over that soon and reach out to you.
When he does, it is best to avoid mentioning the argument that you had with your parents or what he said about the relationship.
Instead, just reassure him that you are still coming to visit him and you can’t wait to see him.
Then proceed to talk to him as you normally would.
Ask him fun questions about Europe.
He was previously so excited about you visiting him.
He still is.
He doesn’t truly believe that the relationship is worthless.
He will eventually come around and begin to tell you about all the wonderful stuff he is going to show you when you visit him.
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