Bullied in front of my crush

[Majd]

I got bullied yesterday by a group of people in front of my crush. Will this change the way she sees me and get negative feelings towards me?

[LukeKeymaster]

Hi Majd,

Your crush may not even know that she is your crush.

Thereby, it is unlikely that the bullying incident that you experienced affected her at all because she may not be emotionally invested in you yet.

If she has been your crush for a while, it may be time for you to make a move on her and either start a conversation with her or ask her out.

[Majd]

But let us say that she is interested in me. Would this bullying situation affect her?

[LukeKeymaster]

Hi Majd,

In that case, it really depends on the kind of qualities that she is looking for in a guy.

If she tends to be more attracted to the very masculine and/or protective type, then the bullying situation may have negatively affected her.

However, she may be more attracted to the studious guy or the artsy guy. If that is what she likes, she may not care all that much that she saw you being bullied.

Again, it just depends on the kind of qualities that she tends to be attracted to or look for in a guy.

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