I’m currently going through a divorce and recently asked a guy that I’ve liked for a few months out for coffee and even though he was flattered and was honest about where he was in his life he said maybe sometime soon but then said that we are still friends right? I felt great. He went on vacation and came back and we were talking and I had told him that I filed for Divorce and he asked had I been married? Really? I have told him this. Anyway I wrote him a letter saying that this is all I wanted was a friendship too and he never read my letter and instead was mean to me and really hurt my feelings and we haven’t talked for almost a week and so on top of hurting from my divorce I’m hurt because we work together and now it’s weird. He is a decent person and either I scared him or he is just not into a big lady. It took everything I had in my to approach him and now I feel like I made the biggest mistake ever. We talked everyday and now nothing.