I always wonder whether I should text first or not when I see someone I like on a dating site. Sometimes, I have the urge to do it but back out because I worry that I am being too aggressive. I may be overthinking this though. Does it really matter who texts who first on dating sites?
It doesn’t matter who texts who first on dating sites. You are all there for mostly the same reasons. Texting someone first is merely kicking off the conversation and nothing more. It is not a sign of aggression. It is not like you are asking the person to marry you or move in with you. You are just starting off conversation. It’s not a big deal.