Ex

[Kevin Quinde]

So will there be a chance your ex that you were always there and wants to get back together

[LukeKeymaster]

Hi Kevin,

There is a chance that an ex would want to get back together.

It is not unusual for exes to get back together after a breakup.

However, a lot depends on the kind of relationship that you had with your ex, what your ex wants and whether they see a future with you.

There are no guarantees that an ex would want to get back together.

Hence, it is always best to live your life and move forward in a positive way.

[Enn]

Hi,
My ex has been with his girlfriend for just over a year.

But, he still flirts with me and wants to hang out with me. He asks for hugs too.

I’m pretty sure he is committed to his girlfriend so why does he behave like this? It’s confusing. Does he still have feelings for me?

[LukeKeymaster]

Hi Enn,

Your ex may still be flirting with you, wanting to hang out and asking for hugs because he doesn’t want to see you with anyone else.

He may know that when he acts in this way, you will keep wondering whether he still likes you or wants to be with you.

He may be protective of his ego to the point where he just doesn’t want to see you with someone else.

As long as he knows that you are still thinking about him, he feels that he can have some kind of control over your love life.

This kind of behavior doesn’t necessarily mean that he still has feelings for you.

Being that he has dated his current girlfriend for just over a year and is committed to her, there is a good chance that he doesn’t have feelings for you.

Again, he may simply want to keep you single so as to make him never have to worry about some other guy getting your attention.

As long as he gives you the impression that there is a chance that the both of you could get back together, he knows that he can keep his ego fed without ever having to return to you as a boyfriend.

[Enn]

Thank you for your reply.

What you say makes sense. His flirting, hugging, staring etc has been confusing me. He likes having lunch with me and buys me cake etc. He says I’m his best friend. People ask if we’re together! I sometimes feel bad for his girlfriend and I don’t think she’d be happy if she knew.

But I think you’re right, he just doesn’t want to see me with anyone else and has no intention to end his current relationship. He rarely invites me to things where she would be there too.

Thank you for your insight.

[LukeKeymaster]

You are welcome Enn.

Regardless of how many lunches you have with your ex or how often he calls you his best friend, he has a girlfriend that he has now been with for just over a year.

There is a reason why he rarely invites you to functions where she will also be present.

He doesn’t want to jeopardize his relationship with her.

It is best not to get your hopes up with him.

Doing so could make it that much harder for you to move on from him.

All the best.

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