For some time dating a guy, we meet kissing and do not know if he even wants a relationship. I would like to ask him in a smart way, we have known each other for 10 years, and he recently told me to have a relationship and I thought he was joking. It bothers me that we don’t talk through messages, we see each other and then we behave like a couple. I do not know if he likes me, because he told me to make love and I try to avoid it because I have the impression that he is insecure, and he does not want a relationship.
Please help me with an answer, I would be grateful.