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Do you normally have a phone chat with someone you met on a dating site before meeting up in person?
I normally do. I like it that way.
It gives me a chance to see if we vibe before putting out the effort to spend the evening with the person.
It saves money and time.
Much rather discover I don’t vibe with someone by chatting on the phone first than find out on a first date.
Hi Levi,
Phone chatting with someone you met on a dating site before meeting up is a good idea.
You are right about the vibe thing.
Best to discover that while chatting on the phone than over a date that you have now expended time, money and effort on.
However, many people still prefer to meet without having a phone call.
Some are intimidated by the prospect of chatting on the phone first and believe that they are better conversationalists in person and others worry about the prospect of giving their phone number to a stranger that they just met on a dating site.
The most important factor is that it works for you and as long as it does, keep doing it.
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