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    First of all I want to say thank you of you effort and I really appreciate your vidoes on Youtube.

    I have my crush and we chat from time to time. She once sent me a private snap to me, but there is something that is concerning me. The problem is that I do not know if that snap was meant to be sent to me only or to her friends aswell.

    What is a good way to ask her if that snap was actually only meant to be sent to me to initiate a conversation with me?

    Thanks again.



    Hi Benjamin,

    Thank you for your kind comment and I am glad that the videos have helped you.

    A good way to ask her if that snap was only meant to be sent to you is to make a comment in acknowledgment of the snap and then ask her about how everybody else she sent it to reacted to it.

    By asking her in this way, you are able to get her to let you know whether she also sent that snap to her friends without giving anything away as far as what you are hoping for.

    If she sent it to her friends as well, she will proceed to let you know how some of them reacted to it.

    If she only sent that snap to you, she will let you know that you were the only one that she sent it to.



    Thanks for the reply.

    She actually reply fast when I text and last week she added me to her private snapchat story. She also once sent me a live pic of her out of the blue in the middle of a conversation. The problem is that when we chat, she rarely asks questions in the conversation. Could she be interested or not?

    Thanks again.



    I hope I can get a reply Luke



    Hi Benjamin,

    So far, the fact that she replies fast when you text and that she added you to her private snapchat story and even sent you a live pic of her out of the blue in the middle of a conversation, does not necessarily indicate that she is interested in you.

    In other words, none of these acts really stand out of the ordinary.

    If she rarely asks questions when the both of you chat, it could be because she isn’t a particularly good talker.

    She may be more comfortable in reacting than in instigating.

    This doesn’t really indicate whether she is interested in you or not.

    However, a way that you can go about determining whether she is interested in you is by flirting with her.

    Oftentimes, when a girl likes you, she will respond to the flirt and even start initiating it as time goes on.

    If she is not interested in you, she will have a lackluster response to the flirt and she most certainly won’t start initiating it as time goes on.



    Hi Luke

    How would she respond to a flirt and how will she initiate it? What do you mean by this part? I once complimented her and she responed with “thank you” and we kept chatting after.

    Can you also give me some examples on how I can flirt with her? A few sentences I can use I mean.

    Thanks again.



    I hope I can get a reply Luke.




    Hi Benjamin,

    If she is interested in you, she would respond to a flirt by simply flirting back.

    She could initiate it by teasing you or giving you a compliment.

    It is best to use a flirt that will require more than a simple “thank you” in response.

    If you just compliment her on something that requires no more than a “thank you” response, that may be all that you get.

    Instead, you should look to start an actual topic of discussion with your flirt as the instigator.

    For example, you could start a flirt like this, “Ever seen INSERT NAME OF MOVIE HERE?”

    She responds with a yes or no. You then proceed to tell her that she reminds you of X actress who was in that movie.

    Assuming that this actress is attractive, you would be flirting with her.

    This type of approach will often open her up to flirting even more with you during this exchange if she is familiar with the actress and likes her.

    It could even lead to talking about other roles that this particular actress has played. In those roles, you may find even more opportunities to flirt with her by drawing similarities between her and this particular actress.

    If she isn’t familiar with the actress, you may have still piqued her curiosity, thereby making her feel the need to look up that actress afterward.

    If she likes what she sees, she may initiate a flirt the next time that she talks to you.

    Perhaps she tells you about a handsome actor that you remind her of.

    Another example of how to flirt with her would be, “Is it just me or have you never taken a bad photo?”

    You could use this in reference to the pics that she posts on her snapchat.

    This kind of flirt sends the message that she is attractive but it also gives her a strong sense of gratitude that you admire her pics.

    This may give her inspiration to start praising how you look in your pics as well.

    This is the kind of opening flirt that could easily lead to a number of flirtatious exchanges between the both of you.

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