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Luke 1 year, 7 months ago.
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There was a man I matched with over the summer on Bumble and went on two dates with. We were truly attracted to each other, but at the time, we had just gotten out of relationships.
We were also moving too fast physically, not sex. This speed impeded me from connecting with him on a mental and emotional level. Eventually, we stopped talking to each other.
I started using Bumble again.
Apparently, he unmatched with me and matched with me again. Is this a red flag? I am really unsure about entertaining him back into my life again. I worry that it would be a waste of time.
Hi Hazel,
Yes, it would be a waste of time.
When the both of you had an opportunity to get to know each other, it got physical very quickly and never evolved from there.
Having just gotten out of relationships, it should have been a time for the both of you to relate and take things slow. Instead, it got physical really quick.
Two people can be really physically attracted to each other, but that doesn’t mean that they will always connect on a mental or emotional level.
Clearly, you both will match on Bumble because you are both compatible on paper. But, real life is a different story.
Bringing him back into your life would most likely lead to what happened before, a fiery physical relationship, but nothing more.
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