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    Hi thank you for what you do. I hope you could please read my message.

    I dated a guy for 3 months. He always tells me how much he likes me and complemented me a lot on my personalities. The problem is he does not call me but only text. He said he does not like talking on phone and preferred texting and some days he doesn’t reply after hours or after a day and said he has busy demanding schedule. I was getting really frustrated so I told him I do not like the texting but nothing changed. We only communicated on phone twice. He invited me out few times and into his apartment. The last time I saw him I was more open to him on what I wanted in relationship but he never said what he was looking for since the first time we met.
    One particular day, he did not reply to my text till after 24 hrs. saying he was out of down and had car trouble. I ignored him. He continued to text like “?” “?” still I did not respond.
    3 weeks after he texted again “Hey” I did not respond. I felt the sense that he did not care.
    Now it has being over 2 months and I cannot stop thinking of him. Especially for the pass 2 weeks I am missing him a lot.
    Although he seems to be a great guy, well-spoken great career and I was attracted by his personalities, At same time I do not want to be hurt or be used. They were no sexual activities involve because I thought it was way too soon.
    The funny thing is we both have same zodiac sign Taurus and we have a lot in comment especially in our personalities
    What shout I do? Call him , or try to move on.
    I home to hear from you.
    Thank you so much for your time



    Hi Jael,

    He doesn’t seem to be serious about his relationship with you.

    He hasn’t told you what he is looking for, even after you told him what you are looking for. This is never a good sign.

    Also, he seems to be using your company as a way to pass the time.

    After 3 months of dating, he should have started talking to you on the phone.

    Only texting is not acceptable nor excusable.

    Even though you can’t stop thinking about this guy, he is not looking for what you are looking for.

    He seems to prefer a relationship of convenience where there are no expectations of him.

    If you are looking for a serious relationship, it would be best to move on.

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