A FaceTime call at 10:30 pm from someone you just met on a dating app isn’t good.

There are better times to call you throughout the day and into the early evening.

Why 10:30pm?

Does his work schedule keep him preoccupied throughout the day and early evening?

There must be room somewhere during the day or early evening for him to FaceTime you.

Being that this is his first intended FaceTime call at 10:30pm, it doesn’t instantly denote a booty call, but it lays a trap.

The thing is, in letting him FaceTime you at 10:30 pm, you set a precedent.

This encourages him to keep asking to FaceTime you at late hours.

Unfortunately, this is what leads to the dreaded booty call.

The late hour is corrupting.

Next thing you know, a conversation transitions into sexual talk and you weren’t ready for it.

Stopping him from doing his first FaceTime call with you at 10:30 pm prevents this from becoming a regular occurrence, which in turn, prevents a dreaded booty call in the foreseeable future.

There are too many hours in the day to have a FaceTime call with him.

Suggest an appropriate time during the day or early evening to do a FaceTime call.

The ball will be in his court.

Should he keep pressing to do a FaceTime call with you at 10:30 pm or a late night hour, he isn’t respecting your wishes and this isn’t good.

It means that he is a self-centered guy, regardless of whether he has any intention of doing a booty call or not.

A guy who respects your boundaries, agreeing to FaceTime you at a time that is more appropriate, has better promise.

In demonstrating that he respects your boundaries this early, you get a better idea of whether he is worth talking to .

Don’t trick yourself into thinking you can handle FaceTime calls late at night.

The mental state of human beings that late into the night isn’t as brisk and alert as it is during the day. After all, it’s past somebody’s bedtime.

A conversation at this late hour doesn’t foster gaining insightful knowledge about each other, considering how tired and less alert the mind gets.

Isn’t the whole idea of being on a dating app to get to know people of romantic potential and see where it naturally leads?

Talking on FaceTime that late at night makes that difficult, especially when these conversations happen regularly.

With the mind lacking alertness and discipline at such a late hour, conversation easily gets sexual, regardless of whether he was intending to have a booty call or not.

Again, at such late hours, the mind isn’t in as much control and tends to wonder.

These tempting situations should be avoided with deliberation.

Stay away from late night FaceTime calls with a guy you just met on a dating app.

Regardless of his intentions, booty call or not, it is safer to stick to chatting with each other during the day or early evening, than risk what could happen late at night.