No matter how well a conversation seems to be going with a woman you match with on a dating app, you inevitably receive this rejection message from her, “You’re a really a good, kind and nice guy, but…”
Whenever you receive this rejection message, your memory gets triggered with the last one you received that was along the same lines, and the one before that, and the one before that.
It has left you thinking that being authentically kind to women on dating apps is a turn off.
Having had a few dates with matches from dating apps that never went beyond the second or third date, you believe that it has everything to do with your niche interests, which to you, are unrelatable to women.
With such niche interests, you are of the mindset that women get bored when they learn about them.
It doesn’t help that you struggle to connect with them in areas that most people find common interests, such as popular media, sports, etc.