Without fail, you match with a guy on a dating app, and the conversation turns sexual.

You have barely gotten to learn more about each other, and he is already rushing into conversation with sexual innuendos and explicitly flirtatious remarks.

To further obfuscate the situation, many of these men choose an option stating that they are looking for a relationship as their preference.

It makes no sense to you that a guy states that he is looking for a relationship in his dating profile, and proceeds to get sexual not long after matching with you and opening up a conversation.

You don’t have any photos on your dating profile that would suggest that you are looking for a casual relationship.

No revealing bikini photos or scantily clad photos.

Your bio is in the same vain, as there are no sexual innuendos.

It is as conservative and vanilla as it gets when it comes to mentioning anything that can be misconstrued as sexual.

Notwithstanding, these men don’t seem to care about any of that.

Conversations with them turn sexual too soon.

Are most men on dating apps sex addicts?

No.

The men who quickly turn a conversation sexual are those who are looking for hookups.

Although he has a dating profile that states he is looking for a relationship, it shouldn’t be taken at face value.

He states that he is looking for a relationship, believing that it gives him better odds to get women to match with him and engage in conversation with him.

Stating his true desire to participate in sexual talk or hooking up wouldn’t be something that appeals to most women on a dating app, and he knows this.

This is why he uses subterfuge to get a woman to match with him.

A woman like yourself isn’t thinking that he has an ulterior motive when you see his dating profile.

You take his dating profile at face value and believe his words.

In stating that he is looking for a relationship in his dating profile, you choose to believe him, given that you are looking for a relationship too.

After swiping right on his dating profile, a match ensues.

But little do you know that you are walking into a trap.

Once you start talking to him, the conversation turns sexual soon after and you are left contemplating about why he was lying in his dating profile.

Unfortunately, these men who lie about their true intentions exist on dating apps.

That being said, most men on dating apps aren’t sex addicts.

There is a minority of men who are on dating apps to satisfy their sexual desires, but the majority of men on dating apps aren’t looking for sex alone, nor do they have a sexual addiction.

Many of the men on dating apps don’t get anywhere near as many matches as women do.

Many are happy when they get to talk to a woman they are attracted to, given that they don’t receive many matches to begin with.

If anything, most men on dating apps go out of their way to avoid turning a conversation sexual in fear of turning a woman off.

Before you match with men on a dating app in the future, use a critical eye as you peruse his dating profile.

A critical eye gives you further insight into whether he is legitimately looking for a relationship or not.

It doesn’t matter that he states that he is looking for a relationship in his dating profile, read between the lines of his bio.

When it is primarily about frivolous topics centered around pop culture, clubbing, or how much he loves to have fun, take heed.

A guy like this is most likely not to be trusted as far as his stated interest of looking for a relationship in his dating profile.

Use the same approach with his photos.

A dating profile filled with photos of a guy who is shirtless or scantily clad is suspicious.

Same applies for multiple photos of him in clubs, bars, or around multiple women.

Take these as a strong sign that his stated intent of looking for a relationship is insincere.

These are men who are the likeliest candidates to match with you and turn a conversation sexual soon after.