It’s a struggle to get matches.
You know that it has to do with you not wanting to have kids.
You have been told as much by a few matches who happened to miss that you indicated that you don’t want kids on your dating profile, who subsequently unmatched with you after seeing it.
It feels impossible to be on dating apps hoping to match with a partner when you are a man who doesn’t want to have kids.
It has left you feeling as though you are on an island.
Why is it so impossible?
Surely, you aren’t the only person in the world who doesn’t want kids.
You are aware that not wanting to have kids isn’t the popular sentiment, but you didn’t think that it would be next to impossible to get matched with people on a dating app.
A dating app is filled with people with an assortment of preferences.
To have next to no one willing to match with you on account of your desire to not have kids is so deflating and heart-wrenching.
I know you are hurting right now.
You never expected to have such a hard time matching with people on a dating app owing to this choice.
Don’t feel so bad.
The truth is, lots of people on dating apps are looking to match with a partner who wants to have kids.
This doesn’t mean that you can’t match with people who are compatible with you.
Take account of who you are hoping to attract.
What age parameters do you have up on your dating profile?
Are you primarily looking to attract younger women in their twenties and thirties?
These are women who have the highest likelihood of wanting to have kids.
Some don’t have kids yet and others may have one or two kids but want more.
If your age parameters are for women in their forties and above, you increase the odds of getting matches.
These women have already had their kids and aren’t looking to have more.
The few of those who don’t have kids are past their best childbearing days and aren’t looking to have any.
Are you open to women in an older age bracket?
If you are, setting your age matching parameters to women who are in their forties and above improves your prospects of getting matches as a man who doesn’t want to have kids.
In case you are looking to match with younger women in their twenties and thirties, you are better off signing up on dating apps that cater to people who don’t want to have kids.
These dating apps are in the “childfree” dating app niche.
Give these dating apps a shot.
They don’t have as many patrons as the most popular dating apps on the web, but the women on “childfree” dating apps don’t want to have kids.
All you are looking for is that one good match, right?
Give these a go, and hopefully, your luck in getting matches improves.