For a good while, you didn’t think it possible.
Sure, you had heard stories about people finding love on a dating app.
Nonetheless, you didn’t know what to think about that.
The negativity you heard in reference to dating apps was more prevalent than the positivity.
Everything from scammers to catfishes, you heard an earful about the pitfalls of dating apps.
So, to be honest, you weren’t all that optimistic when you signed up on a dating app.
You weren’t expecting the best.
Well, how things change.
You have met someone on a dating app and he is terrific.
Even better, he is the love of your life.
You didn’t believe this was conceivable on a dating app, and yet, here it is.
The kind of love you didn’t believe was feasible.
The love that has you waking up in the morning with a smile on your face and your heart aflutter.
The love that has you smiling when someone cuts you off in traffic as you head to work, or has you smiling when your boss is breathing down your neck as you navigate through getting a project done.
This is love that counters all negativity.
No matter what is thrown at you in life, this love supersedes everything.
It is that powerful.
No one has ever had this effect on you.
This is a love that has you on such a high, it feels like you are living in a different reality than everyone else.
No one is more happy when someone on a dating app finds love than I am.
But there is a caveat.
This continues to be someone you don’t know too well.
You only recently met on a dating app.
Sometimes, when we crave love so much, we get carried away when we finally find it.
Don’t be that person.
No, I don’t want to be a party pooper.
I just don’t want you to get too far ahead of yourself emotionally.
It takes time for you to legitimately get to know someone.
Don’t let the initial emotions of love take over your common sense.
People find love on dating apps all the time.
So, this isn’t unusual.
Nevertheless, being that this is someone you don’t know all that well, you need supplementary time to vet the person before letting yourself be overtaken by the powerful emotion of love.
That is all I am saying.
You got on a dating app for a reason.
An absence of success in finding love in your day to day life led to you signing up on a dating app.
You were craving for love, and your mind and body was ready for it.
A guy on a dating app who senses that craving in a woman can easily take advantage of that by making her believe that she has found love in him.
Yes, unfortunately, there are emotional predators out there in the online world.
This is why you must quell your emotions for now and give this relationship further time for vetting.
Learn more about this guy through his behavior and what you learn from those close to him.
It is strictly with time that you learn about who you are realistically dealing with.