Online Dating: How To Prevent Getting Unmatched?

Online Dating: How To Prevent Getting Unmatched?

The goal is to avoid getting unmatched from here on out.

There have been too many occasions where a woman has unmatched with you after a few message exchanges on a dating app.

You don’t like this.

Whenever it happens, you feel awful.

It has never made sense to you, as there has never been anything egregiously bad that you have said to these women.

In truth, you have always kept your conversations with them polite, with a harmless joke thrown in here and there.

Yet, like clockwork, several women who have matched with you in the past have unmatched you.

They have done it without any warning too.

Which has left you feeling empty each and every time it has occurred.

You are tired of getting unmatched on dating apps.

I wish I could tell you that there is a perfect formula to keep you from getting unmatched on a dating app, but there isn’t.

There are women who are simply not going to vibe or connect with your personality, no matter how polite and funny you are.

It doesn’t mean that you are doing anything wrong.

Not every woman you match with on a dating app will share chemistry or compatibility with you.

The best you can do is take the necessary steps to reduce the number of times women unmatch with you.

Being that women receive significantly more matches on a dating app than men do, they are less patient when they aren’t connecting with a guy and less tolerant of bad behavior.

There are a few reasons why a woman unmatches with you.

For one, you reference her physical looks too much.

I know that you don’t mean anything by it when you do it, but if you are accustomed to giving your matches compliments, stop doing it.

When it is this early in communication, do not overwhelm her with compliments.

She prefers conversations that have substance over those that are facetious and filled with compliments.

It doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t be witty, but facetious conversations that are filled with compliments give her the impression that you are trying too hard to make her feel good and this is a turn off.

A woman who is inundated with compliments so soon into conversation, gets turned off and unmatches with you.

Secondly, do not get sexual.

This reason should be obvious, but you would be surprised at how many guys start sexting or talking about sex too soon into conversation.

This results in getting unmatched without that much hesitation from the woman.

Thirdly, never dwell on a topic for too long.

Change topics fairly quickly.

Doing this keeps her from getting bored and unmatching you.

Fourthly, don’t be too overeager by responding to her messages too quickly.

Women are turned off by guys who respond too quickly to their messages.

It gives her the impression that the guy doesn’t have a life and is spending every minute of his day waiting for her replies.

Don’t give her this impression.

Don’t overdo it though.

If you take too long to reply to her message, you run the risk of her running out of patience and unmatching with you too, believing you are uninterested.

A happy medium is required.

Reply within a 24-48 hour period.

As long as you do this, you are within a good enough time frame that you don’t look overeager or uninterested.